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Always Be Yourself with Your Japanese Pen Friend

Tips to Meet Japanese Friends Online

Always be true to yourself.

There's no point in pretending to be someone you're not for AsiansGetNaughty Japanese pen friends; you'll gain nothing out of the relationship if it's built on falsehoods, just like any other. Simply be yourself - open up and show your Japanese pen buddy your serious side, humorous side, creative side, quirky side, dreams, and worries. They will reciprocate if they realize you are telling the truth and being genuine with them, and your letters will develop into a great, intimate friendship.

Encourage dialogue.

Maintain balance in your writing with Japanese pen pals for adults. Don't be tempted to create a solid monologue that's just a list of things you enjoy or activities you've done recently. Instead, include intriguing stories, questions for your pen pal, and insights into your life in your letter. Similarly, don't just ask a lot of questions with no additional content — your pen pal will want to learn about you as well. If you need to vent about your job or college, do so, but keep it brief and balanced with something positive.

You Must be Patient to Find a Japanese Pen Pal

Set your limits.

While it's good, to be honest with your pen pals, if they ask a question or bring up a topic you don't want to address, you have every right to respectfully tell them you don't want to talk about it - whether that means just for now or forever.

Set your expectations.

It's a good idea to establish letter expectations with your Japanese pen pal early on in your relationship so that no one gets surprised or dissatisfied later. People write letters of varying lengths and frequencies. You may be the sort of pen friend from Japan that likes to send shorter letters every two weeks, but what if your new pen pal sends longer, more detailed letters every several months? It's better to talk about it and make sure everyone is on the same page about how things will operate in the future.

Please be patient.

Stay patient if your AsiansGetNaughty pen pal in Japan is taking longer than usual to respond; we all have busy lives where other activities must occasionally take precedence over letter-writing. If it's been a long time, why not drop them a brief email, note, or postcard to make sure everything is well on their end? Communication is always essential.

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